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Dec 10 2015

How Reverse Psychology Works

33 min 10 movies discussed
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You have very likely used reverse psychology before, trying to persuade someone to do something you want by suggesting they do the opposite. What's behind the bizarre reaction this elicits?

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In this episode of Stuff You Should Know, Josh and Chuck dive into the murky world of reverse psychology, exploring how this manipulative technique works by telling people to do the opposite of what you actually want them to do. They examine the psychological principle of "reactance" that drives people to rebel against being told what to do, discuss studies involving children and forbidden toys, and debate the ethics of using these tactics in relationships, parenting, and even therapy. The hosts clearly aren't fans of the manipulation involved, leading to some entertaining rants about toxic relationships and honest communication.


Movies Discussed

Big
Big
1988 1h 44m
★ 7.2
"like a child living in an adult's body. Yeah, like big. — Referenced when discussing adults who act childishly when manipulated by reverse psychology." — Chuck
Casablanca
Casablanca
1943 1h 42m
★ 8.1
"Casablanca first, though? Sure. — Mentioned as a classic film that should be watched before Men at Work." — Josh
Flowers in the Attic
Flowers in the Attic
1987 1h 33m
★ 6.3
"Do you mean Flowers in the Attic? — Chuck mistakenly references this when Josh mentions 'The Door in the Floor'." — Chuck
Hey Dude
Hey Dude
1989
★ 6.8
"David Lasher and Christine Taylor, stars of the cult classic show, Hey Dude — Referenced multiple times as the show that serves as the jumping off point for a 90s nostalgia podcast."
Men at Work
Men at Work
1990 1h 38m
★ 5.7
"Men at work? I never saw it. You have to see men at work. — Another Charlie Sheen movie mentioned during their discussion about the actor." — Josh
Platoon
Platoon
1986 2h 0m
★ 7.7
"Tuna, I think, is one of the best moves ever made — Chuck mentions this Charlie Sheen movie when discussing the actor during a tangent about his bizarre period of fame." — Chuck
Poltergeist
Poltergeist
1982 1h 54m
★ 7.2
"AOL Instant Messenger and the dial-up sound like poltergeist — The dial-up internet sound is compared to the movie Poltergeist during a nostalgia discussion about the 90s."
The Door in the Floor
The Door in the Floor
2004 1h 51m
★ 6.1
"The Door in the Floor was the Jeff Bridges movie based on the John Irving book — Referenced as an example when discussing compliance techniques, though it's actually just a movie title that sounds similar to 'door in the face'." — Josh
The Simpsons
The Simpsons
1989
★ 8.0
"there's a very famous Simpsons episode, where Homer's reading a parenting book — Used as an example of reverse psychology being portrayed in popular culture." — Josh
Tom and Jerry: Forbidden Compass
Tom and Jerry: Forbidden Compass
2025 1h 44m
★ 5.8
"I saw another example, Tom and Jerry. When Jerry has a bomb — Used as another example of reverse psychology being shown in popular culture." — Josh

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