Jun 6 2023

Why Manners?

55 min 6 movies discussed
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Keeping your elbows off the table, keeping your fingers out of the gravy boat – at some point these became very important rules of etiquette. But what purpose do manners serve? It turns out they just may be the glue that prevents society from unraveling.

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# Stuff You Should Know - Manners Episode

Josh and Chuck dive into the fascinating world of manners and etiquette, exploring how these social rules have evolved across cultures and centuries and why they're actually essential to keeping civilization functioning. From ancient Egyptian advice that's somehow still relevant to modern dinner party expectations, they trace how manners went from wild medieval behavior to the highly formalized rules of European courts, and eventually to Emily Post's democratizing etiquette handbook that let everyday Americans learn the code of polite society. Along the way, you'll discover that what counts as good manners varies wildly depending on where you are in the world, how punctuality and eye contact work differently in different cultures, and why even ancient philosophers couldn't quite agree on whether all these social rules were helping or just making people into phonies wearing uncomfortable masks.


Movies Discussed

Barry Lyndon
Barry Lyndon
1975 PG 3h 8m
★ 8.0
"What about Barry Lyndon? Oh, yeah, there you go. — Chuck cites Barry Lyndon as an example of an old English-style movie about tricking one's way into court." — Chuck
Reservation Dogs
Reservation Dogs
2021 TV-MA
★ 7.9
"if the TV show Reservation Dogs is accurate, and I believe it is, to modern day Native American culture — Chuck references the show as an example of modern Native American culture and their food-sharing traditions." — Chuck
Short Circuit 2
Short Circuit 2
1988 PG 1h 50m
★ 6.2
"Secret of my success. Short circuit two. Six degrees of separation. — Josh lists movies as examples of conning or tricking one's way into elite society." — Josh
Six Degrees of Separation
Six Degrees of Separation
1993 R 1h 52m
★ 6.4
"Secret of my success. Short circuit two. Six degrees of separation. — Josh lists movies as examples of conning or tricking one's way into elite society." — Josh
The Grifters
The Grifters
1990 1h 50m
★ 6.5
"Griftors is great. But you know I can't think of like an old sort of English movie version — Josh mentions Grifters as a movie about conning one's way into society." — Josh
The Secret of My Success
The Secret of My Success
1987 1h 51m
★ 6.5
"Secret of my success. Short circuit two. Six degrees of separation. Or or you know what I can't think of — Josh lists movies as examples of conning or tricking one's way into elite society." — Josh

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